I'm sorry in advance; I may get a bit philosophical in this week's blogpost. On my never-ending mission to ensure OMJ is the very best it can be, sometimes a light bulb will go off (something of an "aha" moment) and things become crystal clear on the path forward. While OMJ has always been great at customer service, I will admit we aren't great salespeople in the traditional sense. I am way too practical to be even a halfway decent salesperson...and have probably talked more people out of buying things than I have talked them into it 😂. I genuinely want what is best and "practical" for my customers...but the fatal flaw in that is that often it is through the lens of what I (Brad) would do, and does not take into account my client's goals or personalities. Enter...Needs vs Wants!
Over the past few months I have enjoyed getting into watches (yes I know I am late
to the game, but anyone who knows me knows I love a good rabbit hole...so it was for my own good
to wait...also, getting into wine is still on the list but will have
to wait a few more years... it's not in the budget
😁). It hit me... I 100% do not need any of
these watches I am reading about and researching...and most I will never in my life be able
to afford
or own...but you know what? Just because I don't need them doesn't mean I can't
want them. You see, there is power in that, having something
to aspire
to/for... and often this can inspire and motivate you
to be your best. And that my friends is how clothing is for SO MANY...it is their "collectors item"...their Rolex, Omega,
or Patek Philippe. And I, perhaps like a watchmaker with access
to all of the horological treasures, have taken this for granted. I do this every day for a living, so my
needs are much different than most. Perhaps it is also the lingering impact of COVID and a bit of PTSD (focusing on the basics
to get by and nothing else). Did anyone need this anymore? Did the countless guys coming into my store in 2020/2021 boosting about not having
to wear suits anymore cut deeper than I let on?...(and yes I know this was more about their insecurities of not knowing how
to dress and having a free pass not
to during the work from home days of the pandemic, but still...read the room guys!)?. I fell into a pattern ...Need a suit for a wedding?...we got you covered! Need a jacket
or some shirts because you are going back into the office?...done! Need a new suit because you lost
or gained weight?... Makes perfect sense! The point is, all those were
NEEDS...and at OMJ when you
needed something we delivered. We were great at helping with your
needs because practically speaking it made sense. What we haven't done well though, however, was listen
to your
WANTS. Instead of just giving you what you
needed, we should have listened and been better at the rest.
Want to dress better?...here is how.
Want a wardrobe refresh?... Here are all the pieces you will
want and how
to put all the things together.
Want a higher-end fabric because it makes you feel that much more confident and empowers you?...Let me show you Loro Piana and Zegna.